Why making friends at university feels harder than it really is
The summer before starting university can bring multiple worries for students: worrying about obtaining a place in a desired program, navigating the clearing process to confirm a place, securing housing, sorting out financial aid, preparing for academic study and even finding the
The transition to university can be daunting, and it's understandable that making friends seems like a monumental task. The summer before starting university is filled with logistical and academic concerns, from securing a spot in a desired program to sorting out financial aid. These practical worries can overshadow the social aspect of university life, making it seem like making friends is an insurmountable challenge.
However, research suggests that forming connections with peers is a natural part of the university experience. Students often underestimate their ability to build relationships with others who share similar interests and experiences. In reality, universities offer a unique environment that fosters socialization, with many opportunities for students to connect with one another through clubs, societies, and social events. By reframing their mindset, students can approach university life with a more optimistic outlook on making friends.
As students prepare to start university, it's essential to keep in mind that building friendships takes time and effort. Rather than putting pressure on themselves to immediately form close relationships, students should focus on being open to new experiences and interactions. What's worth watching next is how universities can support students in this process, such as through orientation programs and social activities designed to help students connect with one another. By doing so, universities can help students overcome their worries and thrive in their new academic and social environments.
Originally reported by phys.org. StudentNews adds analysis for science & discovery readers.